If something isn’t the way you would want it to be, then it’s your fault. I am not talking about something specific here, but about everything. It is your fault you don’t have the job you’re dreaming of, the money you want, the friends you wish for. It’s your fault that you are not happy.
It’s your fault because you are waiting for other people to do the things you want them to do or be as you want them to.
Changing your actions is much simpler than trying to change others. So, the next time you want something to be different, think about what you need to change in order for that to happen and not what others have to do.
Don’t expect anything, make it happen yourself.